Ladies, God didn’t tell a woman to find a husband; rather, He told the man to find a wife. So until your man finds you, you’re not overdue for marriage. If you respond to the pressures, you may end up in detention, instead of enjoying marital pleasures.
Moreover, when it comes to marriage, only two people trigger the process. While man has the responsibility to find a wife, God takes the responsibility to set the single man and woman into families. So God does the settings, men do the finding. Women don’t have a role in it.
If you don’t get married, then you’re free to hold God responsible for not setting your marriage. This also means you don’t need to go about “toasting” men with your body, because the only thing you’re expected to say to a man when it comes to marriage is “YES! I WILL MARRY YOU”, and that’s after he has proposed.
This may totally be against everything you’ve heard about getting married, but this is #FaithForMarriage.
So this is my charge for you; since you don’t know what it takes to get married, discover your purpose, find a passion you can run with and run with it. Your husband will not marry you if he finds you sitting idle at home, except you want to be an house wife. Remember that the woman is an “help-meet”; how will he be sure you can help him if he does not see you doing something?
This truth got two of my lady friends married in one year, and that’s why i had the courage to post it today. Remember! Quit worrying, and start working. May God give us understanding!
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